Tennis and other life-long pursuits

I was a victim of a brutal form of torture tonight. For the second time in three days, my friend Brett so kindly invited me to partake in a healthy dose of chasing around a neon green ball. The idea of playing tennis sounded great at first; a chance to hang with him, take advantage of the lovely courts offered by the great city of Woodbury (and paid for with my taxes) and get some general fitness in a seemingly innocent way. Well, Brett just finished his second marathon in twelve months and I just finished my second pizza in two meals and didn't realize just how much I was not up to the task. So we batted around the ball for an hour or so, he getting more and more precise as he honed his skills and I getting more and more sloppy with the increasing fatigue. It was a good time though, through the sweat and the lost balls and the burning lungs. Tennis is a good game. While as pointless (lets be honest) as any other sport, it has positives that outweigh many. First, you can be pretty well set up to play for under $30. Second, the tennis balls smell amazing, fresh out of the can. Third, you can interact with friends in a way that not many other athletics allow. Fourth, you can do it until you die. And in that last one is the true beauty. As I was running/stumbling out to pick up yet another ball that hadn't quite hoisted its way to my opponent's side, I pictured myself doing the exact same thing in forty years. And it was all the same: Brett was jeering friendly insults from the other side, I was wheezing more than him, and we were feeling a general camaraderie fostered only by an athletic event. I hope that those images are true. I hope Brett and I are both well enough to play in forty years. I hope I still enjoy the game. I hope we've both worked on our backhand. But I hope most that the friendship of these two 20somethings has grown. Despite kids and minivans, despite distance and career changes and hospital visits, despite the sheer busyness that can rule our lives, I hope that when my worn out New Balances (and black knee-high socks) hit that green concrete again, that things will be as they were today. And I'll remember this day, when I wanted it all to stay the same.